Comments on: He Said, He Did http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-himmelmann/2006-03-28/he-said-he-did/ Sat, 22 Nov 2008 11:32:07 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: Erin http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-himmelmann/2006-03-28/he-said-he-did/#comment-649 Erin Wed, 29 Mar 2006 15:17:11 +0000 http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-himmelmann/2006-03-28/he-said-he-did/#comment-649 all these comments crack me up. I kind of agree with you guys. hey what's the harm in looking....just don't say one thing and do another. (and there is no message board on this site) although i say there's a difference between looking at their profiles because these are actual women that he could potentiallly meet, whereas porn, yeah, I wish him luck. i'm just curious to how it'll unfold. and hopefully it won't cause too much heartbreak. all these comments crack me up. I kind of agree with you guys. hey what’s the harm in looking….just don’t say one thing and do another. (and there is no message board on this site)

although i say there’s a difference between looking at their profiles because these are actual women that he could potentiallly meet, whereas porn, yeah, I wish him luck.

i’m just curious to how it’ll unfold. and hopefully it won’t cause too much heartbreak.

]]> By: BefDef http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-himmelmann/2006-03-28/he-said-he-did/#comment-645 BefDef Tue, 28 Mar 2006 22:21:58 +0000 http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-himmelmann/2006-03-28/he-said-he-did/#comment-645 Maybe he is there just to read the message board? Maybe he is there just to read the message board?

]]> By: Rob http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-himmelmann/2006-03-28/he-said-he-did/#comment-643 Rob Tue, 28 Mar 2006 21:06:51 +0000 http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-himmelmann/2006-03-28/he-said-he-did/#comment-643 Oh my. The guy should definitely be called onto the carpet especially if he led MissPeppy to believe they were somehow past the dating stage and bona fide girlfriend/boyfriend. Devil's advocate. Your friend, MissPeppy, might have her head in the clouds and be making wishful assumptions. If the guy believes they're still in the "dating" phase, then he's got every right to be looking around or in crude terms, to be shopping for other goods. Oh my. The guy should definitely be called onto the carpet especially if he led MissPeppy to believe they were somehow past the dating stage and bona fide girlfriend/boyfriend.

Devil’s advocate. Your friend, MissPeppy, might have her head in the clouds and be making wishful assumptions. If the guy believes they’re still in the “dating” phase, then he’s got every right to be looking around or in crude terms, to be shopping for other goods.

]]> By: dr. feelgood http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-himmelmann/2006-03-28/he-said-he-did/#comment-642 dr. feelgood Tue, 28 Mar 2006 19:44:16 +0000 http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-himmelmann/2006-03-28/he-said-he-did/#comment-642 this is a common situation with he said and she said. while this particular statement "i want to date only you" seems clear enough, it opens up for different interpretations. he is probably interested in misspeppy, but hon, they met 3 weeks ago. regardless of what had been said, he's not going to stop checking out other people's profiles. at least until he knows for sure he likes misspeppy and that realization isn't going to come until after several months. she's expecting this fella to cheat on her already? tsk. misspeppy should tone down her peppiness and get to know the boy more before declaring her everlasting love. in other words, don't expect 100% committment from him (or any other guys) until several months later. or if this guy is truly serious about misspeppy already, maybe he's checking to see if she's checking out other boys' profiles behind his back. how's that for irony? *psychiatristic chortle* this is a common situation with he said and she said. while this particular statement “i want to date only you” seems clear enough, it opens up for different interpretations.

he is probably interested in misspeppy, but hon, they met 3 weeks ago. regardless of what had been said, he’s not going to stop checking out other people’s profiles. at least until he knows for sure he likes misspeppy and that realization isn’t going to come until after several months.

she’s expecting this fella to cheat on her already? tsk. misspeppy should tone down her peppiness and get to know the boy more before declaring her everlasting love. in other words, don’t expect 100% committment from him (or any other guys) until several months later.

or if this guy is truly serious about misspeppy already, maybe he’s checking to see if she’s checking out other boys’ profiles behind his back.

how’s that for irony? *psychiatristic chortle*

]]> By: Adam http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-himmelmann/2006-03-28/he-said-he-did/#comment-641 Adam Tue, 28 Mar 2006 19:31:13 +0000 http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-himmelmann/2006-03-28/he-said-he-did/#comment-641 Buwahaha! Juicy office gossip! Ok. Just what is wrong with a guy checking out other girls' profiles? It's like a husband not being allowed to look at porno. Did he at least change his profile to "in a relationship?" Yes, it's a bit unusual, so MissPeppy should call him out on it. My thinking is, MissPeppy misunderstood him. Or he's regretting his decision to go steady with MissPeppy. Or MissPeppy needs to be a bit less peppy. Buwahaha! Juicy office gossip!

Ok. Just what is wrong with a guy checking out other girls’ profiles? It’s like a husband not being allowed to look at porno. Did he at least change his profile to “in a relationship?”

Yes, it’s a bit unusual, so MissPeppy should call him out on it. My thinking is, MissPeppy misunderstood him. Or he’s regretting his decision to go steady with MissPeppy. Or MissPeppy needs to be a bit less peppy.

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