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mickie b — Mon, 17 Apr 2006 20:28:13 +0000

damn. some of you are so long winded!! cant you make your point faster?? i think no matter how you put your self out there for others, being willing to aproach someone you don’t or barely know is great. Quick ?. is it online dateing if you meet a great guy in a place like this for fun??? i dunno, cuz i never did the date room stuff:}

By: Diana

Diana — Mon, 03 Apr 2006 20:42:42 +0000

I have been on and off match for some time too, like a lot of woman, but been off of it for a while now. Have to claim it is not for everyone, if you already had enough of bad experience, and kissed enough frogs, who did not turn into prince, do not expect it will happen on match or any other virtual site.
Yes, a lot of man are after one thing, and woman are no better. It is true that match does not screen there members and yes,a lot of them are married. I personally know a couple man who are on the site and married, and keep claiming in there profile there are looking for a serious relationship. Mostly, I came to tell you something very different. I am sure they where no way match could of screen this dump ****. And there is no blame to match employees there just doing there job, to pay for the living.
But here it goes.
I work with a couple young sophisticated woman, who are attractive and fun. Yes, they do have some habits but do not we all. One is engaged, another looking. The one who is looking decided to try match, I did not want to scare her, and did not tell her anything except, be careful and that personally it was not for me. So, it has been about 5 weeks in her search for a “soulmate”. She would call 2 of us in her office, and will ask us to screen some man in whom she showed interest. To tell you the truth I saw some familiar faces who where there over a year ago, but going to the point. Since it is a little bit of a slow season for us at work, we did put a little bit too much effort helping her. And about 7 days ago discovered other girls fiancé picture on this lovely site, with the profile which was active 24 hours ago. Since most of us have pictures of family and friends in our offices, we pretty much froze, yes we all did recognize him. Actually I met him first time during our fancy, but god dam boring Christmas party. Mostly when I go over her house he is on business out of state or works late. The girl who was searching match never met him in person, but trust me we saw our share of his pictures. The reaction was unusual, we pretty much where staring at the picture for about 3 minutes, it probably seemed like a lifetime to my lovely coworker friend. I decided the silence needs to be broken. What I was thinking I can not recall, but I started with, honey someone could of ask him for the picture, or just borrowed it from the shared drive at work. To tell you the truth he is very physically attractive, when I talked to him during Christmas party, he seemed completely normal. No one panicked, I have to give it to the girl that she did not became hysterical, and did not draw any conclusions right away. The other girl claimed that I can be very right and it is very easy to check. Not that we decide on some good deed, but I am sure most woman will fully support our decision. Let me put it that way the other women happiness was at stake. After reading his lovely profile, which claimed he was looking for something very serious and compassionate, and looking at 7 more pictures(in one picture he was with his fiancé, but she was cut out).
Finally 2,5 days ago we decided to post a fake profile, since I am from a different country and have an accent we also decided to find pictures of some exotic girls where I am from originally and post them. I was a little skeptical at first, what if someone just doing the same thing we are doing. But it was too late to back out, and to tell you the truth I was extremely curious. I actually went to a couple cheap Russian escort sites, and definitely found pictures of some very questionable woman. And finally we all decided and picked really stand out redhead with huge lips, blue eyes and definitely gorgeous body. Not only one redhead, another ala natural blonde with huge tits, green eyes, and another one with really sophisticated look, looked more like a teacher than a whore. The deed was done all the girls where posted, I know no respect for others, why they have to pay, why not just to confront him. But it was done, the profiles where new, fresh, waiting to be approved. While we peacefully where waiting for the approval, all 3 of us signed up for a 3 day trial with one month extension, the girl offer to pay for us if we need to continue longer than 3 days, but we both where so intrigued to find the end of this drama.
So, and what do you think? We did not have to wait for long, the redhead who is represented by me and the Blondie who was represented by other coworker got a wink on the first day, from our lovely coworker friend fiancé. I will not tell how many other responses those whores got, from man not only where we live, but from all over the country. The ratio for them would climb by the second, and trust me their profiles claim only serious man with serious intentions need to apply. Yes, we did made fun of some people, but to some we politely said that we not interested.
But another thing no one except, when we will write no thanks, we would get a lot of emails back, below just two examples. (can man tell a difference between whores and some real woman?) And also man who are 20 to 30 years older will email us, but we made our fake girls 30 and 29 years old

Example1: I’m not sure where you interpreted that we are looking for different things, as I seemed to match you list pretty well and passed the “have your mind set on friendship with benefits, casual dating or getting over emotional, financial rollercoaster, in a relationship, have a wife, live with an ex” test.

I suppose I just may not be your physical type and I respect that, but if that’s not it, I would ask you to reconsider. Maybe I can explain something that’s not clear to you.

Example2: I appreciate your response. Are you trying to say that you don’t think I am ready for a Long Term? If so, you would be wrong. I have been online now for about 11 months, and although I have had the opportunity to date, I have not found someone “fits” who I am looking for — for the long term.

Am I dating? Yes. Am I dating with an eye to the future? Most definitely. The only way I can determine if someone is right for me, is by emailing them or visiting them live. I hope this isn’t too bold, but wouldn’t it be curious if I was the right person for you…..and we “missed” each other?

Despite my generally upbeat nature, I don’t lie AND I don’t play games. Life is too short for either of these.

Okay,I am Russian, maybe I do not understand something:), but I have lived in the country for 13 years, graduated high school and college here, but other 2 girls born here, lived here their entire life. And do man can tell the difference between professional photos of real whores and normal human beings

Enough of that going back to our fiancé situation. The redhead and the Blondie both winked back at him, and here our Casanova got back with such intriguing emails. To make my point today he send his phone number, apparently my coworker friend and he has a family plan from Verizon. He asked me for a drink after work tonight, the Blondie date is tomorrow, he really did not went for the sophisticated looking whore. The reaction of my very friendly coworker friend, who actually never swears was not that good this time, actually she called and told her parents. I can not describe their reaction, thanks god it was over the phone.
But the decision was made to sent him my phone number, I was a little afraid he might recognize my not mistakable Russian accent. But he did left me a message where we meeting tonight, and yes it was him. I am sure his ex fiancé, he has no idea about it yet. But we all going to meet him, that is not going to be pretty.
There where times when I was skeptical that I did not give enough chance to some man on match, and yes I did met one person I was interested in but he was not in to me. But in reality I do not think it is all worse it.
Did we start forgetting how it is to meet people thru friends, how is it not to lie, at least if you meet thru a friend or a family there is 95% chance the person is not married, engaged or in a serious relationship. I am not calling myself angel here, or that 3 of us did something good. But there is no women in this world who deserve this.
I will not tell anyone what to do, make your own decisions
But neither of us will ever join, look or browse any of these sites again.
Good Luck

By: Tim

Tim — Tue, 21 Feb 2006 18:51:56 +0000

Besides the fact that I’m expressing my viewpoint that online dating is a waste of my time, as well as many of my male friends who have shared the same sentiment, and got bashed for posting a negative news article to support a previous comment, I would like to add my viewpoint with some suggestions for deaf and hard of hearing people regarding dating.

First, since most people want someone they’re attracted to, there’s an ethical issue with posting an older picture from 5-10 years ago. It really makes sense to post current pictures of yourself and provide several extra pictures upon request. One picture is fine, but you really want to provide the viewer with more angles that reveal your personalities and interests (i.e. a picture of you running a marathon).

Second, if you do not mention your deafness in your profile, don’t wait too long before telling them upfront about it. For me, I would say 85% of people I meet don’t have a problem with deafness if you’re honest about it and act confident. Just don’t rush the relationship and give them time to absorb it.

Finally, if you’re going to meet someone for the first time after chatting with them online, pick something you can spend only a few minutes and still have fun. I highly recommend meeting people for the first time over a cup of coffee. That gives you a window of 15 minutes to determine if the person is a good match and you can easily prolong the date. Dinners usually take 1-2 hours, so should be reserved for a second or third date when you’re comfortable with the person.

That’s my viewpoint and I’m sticking by it.