Comments on: Clean Shaven http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/ Fri, 29 Aug 2008 22:14:37 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: Job http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-14528 Job Tue, 29 Aug 2006 22:50:48 +0000 http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-14528 Maybe the entire thing has gone askew: it does not really have to do with sexual preference. The problem lies in MEN, per se. Men in both worlds show examples of lust and sexual issues: adult video stores, magazines and websites, gay bathhouses, etc. For straight and gay men, there are plenty of escorts and prostitutes, but for straight and lesbian women, what is really out there? Just male-strippers at a bar? They're not all that ubiquitious. Anyway, anti-gay ideas are not to stem from this argument. Straight women have to be double-wary and mindful of the male partners' extracurricular activities as well. There simply are fewer guys who are capable of keeping a healthy relationships in both worlds, so it's only natural that gay guys have it going harder. It's like looking for a needle in a haystack, but it's there. Maybe the entire thing has gone askew: it does not really have to do with sexual preference. The problem lies in MEN, per se. Men in both worlds show examples of lust and sexual issues: adult video stores, magazines and websites, gay bathhouses, etc. For straight and gay men, there are plenty of escorts and prostitutes, but for straight and lesbian women, what is really out there? Just male-strippers at a bar? They’re not all that ubiquitious.

Anyway, anti-gay ideas are not to stem from this argument. Straight women have to be double-wary and mindful of the male partners’ extracurricular activities as well. There simply are fewer guys who are capable of keeping a healthy relationships in both worlds, so it’s only natural that gay guys have it going harder. It’s like looking for a needle in a haystack, but it’s there.

]]> By: Job http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-14522 Job Tue, 29 Aug 2006 22:31:31 +0000 http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-14522 Simon, your delivery was beautiful. However one thing remains- I find so many good and very beautiful men and I would even die to marry one. I have been saving it for a long time, and am the perpetual partner in waiting. My worst torment is that I'm very desirable and attract people of all kinds. But there's always that same old darn social rule that we stay at least an arm's length away from each other. Why is that rule persistent today? I've been in love before, and have faith that love will come alive again. Simon, your delivery was beautiful. However one thing remains- I find so many good and very beautiful men and I would even die to marry one. I have been saving it for a long time, and am the perpetual partner in waiting. My worst torment is that I’m very desirable and attract people of all kinds. But there’s always that same old darn social rule that we stay at least an arm’s length away from each other. Why is that rule persistent today? I’ve been in love before, and have faith that love will come alive again.

]]> By: Curious Eyes http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-12685 Curious Eyes Tue, 08 Aug 2006 16:10:41 +0000 http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-12685 I agree with you, Erin, but too late... I already laid eyes on that distasteful entry. Ewww. Is there any way DeafDC.com can pre-screen RLM's comments before they get onto the blog? There's been more than one occasion when his comments crossed the line. I agree with you, Erin, but too late… I already laid eyes on that distasteful entry. Ewww. Is there any way DeafDC.com can pre-screen RLM’s comments before they get onto the blog? There’s been more than one occasion when his comments crossed the line.

]]> By: Erin Casler http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-12661 Erin Casler Tue, 08 Aug 2006 12:55:00 +0000 http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-12661 Robert: This is not the space for you to get into the specifics of sexual acts. I am deleting your comments, and yours only, because they are inappropriate and contain references to specific sexual acts. The "ground rules" for comments aren't posted because it's simply common sense... Or maybe in your case, not so common after all. Kind regards, Erin Robert:

This is not the space for you to get into the specifics of sexual acts. I am deleting your comments, and yours only, because they are inappropriate and contain references to specific sexual acts. The “ground rules” for comments aren’t posted because it’s simply common sense… Or maybe in your case, not so common after all.

Kind regards,

Erin

]]> By: Ridor http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-12533 Ridor Mon, 07 Aug 2006 07:17:34 +0000 http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-12533 You remind me of this fag who claimed to be straight but he was caught at Mr. P's, a gay bar in DC. Please do NOT talk tolerance to me -- after the fact that for years, the Xians waged a battle to prevent us from having the basic rights as American i.e. gay marriage, the right to serve in military, and so on ... and you are telling me to practice some kind of tolerance for you? Well, kiss my ***. R- You remind me of this *** who claimed to be straight but he was caught at Mr. P’s, a gay bar in DC.

Please do NOT talk tolerance to me — after the fact that for years, the Xians waged a battle to prevent us from having the basic rights as American i.e. gay marriage, the right to serve in military, and so on … and you are telling me to practice some kind of tolerance for you?

Well, kiss my ***.

R-

]]> By: Ridor http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-12532 Ridor Mon, 07 Aug 2006 07:15:09 +0000 http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-12532 Honey, I do that many times. That's why I address them as Xians, not Christians. Because they're full of ****. R- Honey, I do that many times. That’s why I address them as Xians, not Christians.

Because they’re full of ****.

R-

]]> By: Nonesuch http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-12498 Nonesuch Sun, 06 Aug 2006 21:25:09 +0000 http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-12498 And I'm turned on by two women making out, and I'm a straight woman. Go figure, huh? And I’m turned on by two women making out, and I’m a straight woman. Go figure, huh?

]]> By: anonymous http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-12487 anonymous Sun, 06 Aug 2006 18:24:15 +0000 http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-12487 Actually, I'm turned on by two guys getting it on together---Queer As Folks, anyone? And I'm a woman. Actually, I’m turned on by two guys getting it on together—Queer As Folks, anyone? And I’m a woman.

]]> By: Questioning homosexuality http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-12441 Questioning homosexuality Sun, 06 Aug 2006 01:16:41 +0000 http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-12441 What you said would be exactly the same thing I would say 5-10 years ago. I was very gay & wore it as a badge for many years. Was totally into the gay lifestyle. People would vouch that I was very pro-gay! So life does change when it is totally unexpected. Wouldn't want to go back to the old life for anything in the world! What is disturbing would be that many gays have a hard time accepting that other gays would become ex-gays. Talk about practicing tolerance! How you treat me would be exactly how straights would treat gays in the old days by belitting them! What you said would be exactly the same thing I would say 5-10 years ago. I was very gay & wore it as a badge for many years. Was totally into the gay lifestyle. People would vouch that I was very pro-gay! So life does change when it is totally unexpected. Wouldn’t want to go back to the old life for anything in the world! What is disturbing would be that many gays have a hard time accepting that other gays would become ex-gays. Talk about practicing tolerance! How you treat me would be exactly how straights would treat gays in the old days by belitting them!

]]> By: Questioning homosexuality http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-12440 Questioning homosexuality Sun, 06 Aug 2006 01:09:12 +0000 http://www.deafdc.com/blog/erin-casler/2006-08-03/clean-shaven/#comment-12440 Well, some Christians are perverts. Too many people expect Christians to be saints but it is not the case. Many Christians struggle just like the rest of the world! Of course, they make many mistakes including judging & condemning. You should have guts to stand up to Christians if you think their attitudes are not Christianlike. They need to be rebuked in order to keep their faith! Well, some Christians are perverts. Too many people expect Christians to be saints but it is not the case. Many Christians struggle just like the rest of the world! Of course, they make many mistakes including judging & condemning. You should have guts to stand up to Christians if you think their attitudes are not Christianlike. They need to be rebuked in order to keep their faith!

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