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	<title>Comments on: Informed Decisions, Parents Know Best, and Other Mythical Creatures (I of III)</title>
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		<title>By: Karen Mayes</title>
		<link>http://www.deafdc.com/blog/chris-heuer/2007-07-30/informed-decisions-parents-know-best-and-other-mythical-creatures-i-of-iii/#comment-86212</link>
		<dc:creator>Karen Mayes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Aug 2007 13:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yup, I am interested in knowing how other deaf schools fare in the test scores (any kind of state/national tests), other than five "top" deaf schools' scored.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yup, I am interested in knowing how other deaf schools fare in the test scores (any kind of state/national tests), other than five &#8220;top&#8221; deaf schools&#8217; scored.</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Mayes</title>
		<link>http://www.deafdc.com/blog/chris-heuer/2007-07-30/informed-decisions-parents-know-best-and-other-mythical-creatures-i-of-iii/#comment-86211</link>
		<dc:creator>Karen Mayes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Aug 2007 12:58:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yup, you make sense, DP.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yup, you make sense, DP.</p>
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		<title>By: Jenny</title>
		<link>http://www.deafdc.com/blog/chris-heuer/2007-07-30/informed-decisions-parents-know-best-and-other-mythical-creatures-i-of-iii/#comment-86200</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Aug 2007 03:13:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for clarifying, because your original comment, "...And what you said, DP, about HSEE, which can be taken voluntary, only goes to show that..." means something completely different from what you're saying now.

I'd also like to re-state - CSD and CSDR are NOT in the same area. They're separated by at least 300 miles. There are hundreds of miles of sparsely populated land between the two areas. Please stop saying that it's one area. It is NOT.

Also, please do include other schools for the deaf in your arguments. Doing so would bolster your points.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for clarifying, because your original comment, &#8220;&#8230;And what you said, DP, about HSEE, which can be taken voluntary, only goes to show that&#8230;&#8221; means something completely different from what you&#8217;re saying now.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d also like to re-state - CSD and CSDR are NOT in the same area. They&#8217;re separated by at least 300 miles. There are hundreds of miles of sparsely populated land between the two areas. Please stop saying that it&#8217;s one area. It is NOT.</p>
<p>Also, please do include other schools for the deaf in your arguments. Doing so would bolster your points.</p>
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		<title>By: mcconnell</title>
		<link>http://www.deafdc.com/blog/chris-heuer/2007-07-30/informed-decisions-parents-know-best-and-other-mythical-creatures-i-of-iii/#comment-86160</link>
		<dc:creator>mcconnell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Aug 2007 08:50:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jenny, yes, they must past the test in order to graduate, hence the acronym HSEE - High School Exit Examination. What I meant to say is that students can voluntarily choose which of the available dates they can take the examination given that seniors get 3 tries, and juniors 2 tries. 

Singling out California? No, only because these reports are readily accessible over the internet. And it just happens that there are two schools for the deaf that are geographically located in one of the most populated place for Deaf people.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jenny, yes, they must past the test in order to graduate, hence the acronym HSEE - High School Exit Examination. What I meant to say is that students can voluntarily choose which of the available dates they can take the examination given that seniors get 3 tries, and juniors 2 tries. </p>
<p>Singling out California? No, only because these reports are readily accessible over the internet. And it just happens that there are two schools for the deaf that are geographically located in one of the most populated place for Deaf people.</p>
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		<title>By: Jenny</title>
		<link>http://www.deafdc.com/blog/chris-heuer/2007-07-30/informed-decisions-parents-know-best-and-other-mythical-creatures-i-of-iii/#comment-86158</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Aug 2007 06:21:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>McConnell, noted.

DP, HSEE is the high school exit examination.

McConnell again, thank you for acknowledging that the Bay Area is both geographically and culturally in Northern California. 

Another thought - you state that the HSEE is voluntary. It is NOT. It hasn't been voluntary for a bit now. No pass HSEE, no diploma. Again, you appear to be trying to discuss something that you are not all that familiar with. 

Furthermore, why the focus on California? What about Indiana? Maryland? MSSD? It seems like you're singling out California.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>McConnell, noted.</p>
<p>DP, HSEE is the high school exit examination.</p>
<p>McConnell again, thank you for acknowledging that the Bay Area is both geographically and culturally in Northern California. </p>
<p>Another thought - you state that the HSEE is voluntary. It is NOT. It hasn&#8217;t been voluntary for a bit now. No pass HSEE, no diploma. Again, you appear to be trying to discuss something that you are not all that familiar with. </p>
<p>Furthermore, why the focus on California? What about Indiana? Maryland? MSSD? It seems like you&#8217;re singling out California.</p>
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		<title>By: Michele Ketcham</title>
		<link>http://www.deafdc.com/blog/chris-heuer/2007-07-30/informed-decisions-parents-know-best-and-other-mythical-creatures-i-of-iii/#comment-86154</link>
		<dc:creator>Michele Ketcham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Aug 2007 04:14:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chris, I saw the movie "Supersize Me", and I'm sure you know the star of that movie ate only supersize items from McDonald's for a month, with disastrous results.

I only wish that he had (for comparision purposes) said something about what would happen if one were to order just small or medium items from McDonald's once or twice a week.

Because I'm the sort who orders small or medium every time. I never order Supersize or even large, because it's simply way too much for me. And my weight and health has stayed stable.

But I digress.

I agree with Chris when he says (basically) "information &#38; choices, so what?" when it comes to parents with deaf children.

I think that the real issue is obviously not the problem of getting information or choices to parents. Obviously the access to information and choices are there, for them to discover. It's not that hard.

In my experience, I've found hearing people to be incredibly LAZY when it comes to deaf-related information. They wanted us (Deaf people) to spoon-feed them the information. They didn't want to do research or do their homework on their own. They couldn't even be bothered to look in Yellow Pages or Google the word "deaf" for starters.

When I used to work at NAD and for other advocacy organizations, I used to have to spoon-feed information to hearing people all the time and it used to piss me off (although I never told them what I thought, of course) that I had to do all this work for them when it was obvious that they had done nothing on their end to match my efforts.

Another issue to consider about "getting information and choices" to parents of deaf children is the fact (which has been largely unspoken and certainly not discussed in society) that very often parents ALREADY have pre-conceived ideas of their own about sign language, deaf people, etc.

Most hearing people aren't entirely clueless when it comes to sign language and deaf people. I've found most of them to be amazingly full of ideas (such as "sign language prevents deaf people from using voice" or "deaf schools are bad", etc)...keep in mind that these ideas that they've got floating in their consciousness are based on hearsay fed to them by media and other hearing people (and sometimes other deaf people).

So it's not just getting info and choices to parents...it's getting all that unconscious ideas outta their brains so that they can truly be fair-minded and objective when deciding the fate of their deaf children.

And oh yeah, it'd be neat if these parents also put some effort in their research/homework as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chris, I saw the movie &#8220;Supersize Me&#8221;, and I&#8217;m sure you know the star of that movie ate only supersize items from McDonald&#8217;s for a month, with disastrous results.</p>
<p>I only wish that he had (for comparision purposes) said something about what would happen if one were to order just small or medium items from McDonald&#8217;s once or twice a week.</p>
<p>Because I&#8217;m the sort who orders small or medium every time. I never order Supersize or even large, because it&#8217;s simply way too much for me. And my weight and health has stayed stable.</p>
<p>But I digress.</p>
<p>I agree with Chris when he says (basically) &#8220;information &amp; choices, so what?&#8221; when it comes to parents with deaf children.</p>
<p>I think that the real issue is obviously not the problem of getting information or choices to parents. Obviously the access to information and choices are there, for them to discover. It&#8217;s not that hard.</p>
<p>In my experience, I&#8217;ve found hearing people to be incredibly LAZY when it comes to deaf-related information. They wanted us (Deaf people) to spoon-feed them the information. They didn&#8217;t want to do research or do their homework on their own. They couldn&#8217;t even be bothered to look in Yellow Pages or Google the word &#8220;deaf&#8221; for starters.</p>
<p>When I used to work at NAD and for other advocacy organizations, I used to have to spoon-feed information to hearing people all the time and it used to piss me off (although I never told them what I thought, of course) that I had to do all this work for them when it was obvious that they had done nothing on their end to match my efforts.</p>
<p>Another issue to consider about &#8220;getting information and choices&#8221; to parents of deaf children is the fact (which has been largely unspoken and certainly not discussed in society) that very often parents ALREADY have pre-conceived ideas of their own about sign language, deaf people, etc.</p>
<p>Most hearing people aren&#8217;t entirely clueless when it comes to sign language and deaf people. I&#8217;ve found most of them to be amazingly full of ideas (such as &#8220;sign language prevents deaf people from using voice&#8221; or &#8220;deaf schools are bad&#8221;, etc)&#8230;keep in mind that these ideas that they&#8217;ve got floating in their consciousness are based on hearsay fed to them by media and other hearing people (and sometimes other deaf people).</p>
<p>So it&#8217;s not just getting info and choices to parents&#8230;it&#8217;s getting all that unconscious ideas outta their brains so that they can truly be fair-minded and objective when deciding the fate of their deaf children.</p>
<p>And oh yeah, it&#8217;d be neat if these parents also put some effort in their research/homework as well.</p>
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		<title>By: WAD</title>
		<link>http://www.deafdc.com/blog/chris-heuer/2007-07-30/informed-decisions-parents-know-best-and-other-mythical-creatures-i-of-iii/#comment-86152</link>
		<dc:creator>WAD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Aug 2007 02:49:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Northern_California

Without the dot at the end, the link will work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Northern_California" rel="nofollow">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Northern_California</a></p>
<p>Without the dot at the end, the link will work.</p>
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		<title>By: mcconnell</title>
		<link>http://www.deafdc.com/blog/chris-heuer/2007-07-30/informed-decisions-parents-know-best-and-other-mythical-creatures-i-of-iii/#comment-86150</link>
		<dc:creator>mcconnell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Aug 2007 02:25:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>DP said it well. Which was why I blogged about this one week ago - "An AGB Protest or AGB Dialogue?". It was managers who somehow got the tip about the upcoming protest who went out of there way to read all those blogs (maybe even some vlogs with some help) and noticed the numerous vitriolic comments all across those blogs. So, what ARE they supposed to think? Friend or foe?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>DP said it well. Which was why I blogged about this one week ago - &#8220;An AGB Protest or AGB Dialogue?&#8221;. It was managers who somehow got the tip about the upcoming protest who went out of there way to read all those blogs (maybe even some vlogs with some help) and noticed the numerous vitriolic comments all across those blogs. So, what ARE they supposed to think? Friend or foe?</p>
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		<title>By: Sara Stallard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sara Stallard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Aug 2007 02:10:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Perhaps this will help settle the debate over what Northern California constitutes of: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Northern_California. Reference to topographic maps would also help.

And there are more than two deaf schools in California...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Perhaps this will help settle the debate over what Northern California constitutes of: <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Northern_California." rel="nofollow">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Northern_California.</a> Reference to topographic maps would also help.</p>
<p>And there are more than two deaf schools in California&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: mcconnell</title>
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		<dc:creator>mcconnell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Aug 2007 02:08:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Like I said before here and elsewhere, I've no problem on using signs with babies, deaf and hearing, until they are of age to use their vocal cords effectively. Even if it means using signs for the first 2 or 3 years then over to aural only. Or sign and oral combined. Or after signing go to Cued speech only. Or just continuing signing without worry about oral or cued speech. Or whatever. I agree with the stimulation of the neural network in the brain. However, the window of opportunity falls within the first 5 years to make a difference. The biggest impact would be during the 1st 3 years. So, even if two years of limited communication (ie no signing) until the child is fitted with a hearing aid or cochlear can still make tremendous gains on picking up the English language, for  example, and still make up for it. So, it's not all so cut and dry saying if one doesn't do anything in the first 2 or 3 years of a baby's life in terms of language development does not necessarily mean that baby will grow up completely language delayed into adulthood. There's an increased risk, sure.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like I said before here and elsewhere, I&#8217;ve no problem on using signs with babies, deaf and hearing, until they are of age to use their vocal cords effectively. Even if it means using signs for the first 2 or 3 years then over to aural only. Or sign and oral combined. Or after signing go to Cued speech only. Or just continuing signing without worry about oral or cued speech. Or whatever. I agree with the stimulation of the neural network in the brain. However, the window of opportunity falls within the first 5 years to make a difference. The biggest impact would be during the 1st 3 years. So, even if two years of limited communication (ie no signing) until the child is fitted with a hearing aid or cochlear can still make tremendous gains on picking up the English language, for  example, and still make up for it. So, it&#8217;s not all so cut and dry saying if one doesn&#8217;t do anything in the first 2 or 3 years of a baby&#8217;s life in terms of language development does not necessarily mean that baby will grow up completely language delayed into adulthood. There&#8217;s an increased risk, sure.</p>
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